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Alexander House Hotel - an Alexander Hotel

East Grinstead, West Sussex

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East Grinstead

West Sussex

RH10 4QD


Alexander House, West Sussex, is overflowing with history and set within 120 acres of Sussex countryside and beautifully maintained gardens, including an outdoor wedding gazebo.

Alexander House is one of the most prestigious retreats outside London.with a choice of spaces for your ideal ceremony or celebration, an award winning spa, 3 AA Rosette restaurant and 38 individually designed bedrooms, this stunning country house is the perfect setting for your dream wedding day.

From an intimate wedding breakfast to a larger extravaganza, you can be assured of superb dining & luxuriously appointed rooms, alongside discreet, supportive service at Alexander House Hotel

The wedding packages at Alexander House are attractively priced and include everything you could want from a day that will last a lifetime.


We Could Do It All Over Again! Alexander House work hard to make sure the day runs without a hitch and pride themselves in quality service and quality food. We had an amazing wedding day and everyone said they could do it all over again! The food was top class and the staff worked really hard to make the day special. Alexander House is such a nice venue and because it isn't too big and our wedding not too many, it felt more personal and intimate. Thank you for all your help too with everything - I particularly liked the personalised menus (yes I did notice) and thank you for changing the table list so quickly on the day. The honeymoon suite was stunning too and my mum and I even got to enjoy the hot tub outside the day before! We would recommend this hotel 100% to any couple for their wedding day!

Will Highly Recommend You We had the best day ever, all my guests loved the venue so I'm glad I chose Alexander House, it’s amazing! Danni Beach (photographer) is brilliant, so much worry for nothing as it all fell into place. Bless my dad he was so nervous and had far too much red wine he was in bed very early. Thank you again I will highly recommend you! We will be back for a long weekend on our Anniversary without the baby as we missed the spa on the Sunday.

The Best Wedding They'd Ever Been To Thank you so much for organising what was an amazing day, not only for us but for all of our guests as well. So many people have complimented us on not only the venue which I totally agree is a beautiful hotel, but the feel of the hotel, the way the staff attended to our every need, yet seeming to remain in the background and the quality of the food and drink was a big hit not only with the day guests but the amount of people who have commented on how nice the hog roast was – one of the best was said by several. William and I unfortunately did not have any – we were still full up from the wedding breakfast! From a personal view, my wedding day was everything and more that I could have hoped for. The hotel was stunning, the grounds were lovely and we have got some beautiful wedding photos. The library was small and informal for our ceremony which was perfect and the way that Bows Hire transformed the room downstairs was magical. I came back from the hairdressers and went downstairs to take a sneaky peak and I was blown away. I have to admit to having a small tear too. The room really did look beautiful.

Nothing was too much trouble! I would just like to extend my very sincere thanks for your help in arranging our wedding. We had a wonderful day, not least because it went without a hitch and your colleagues at the hotel, particularly the girls that looked after our party throughout the day were a delight. Nothing was too much trouble and they were so friendly and efficient. Please extend our appreciation and gratitude to them. W and I very much look forward to returning in the future and we will have no hesitation to recommend Alexander House to friends and colleagues.

The Most Amazing Day We got married at Alexander House on the 19th August 2012 and we had the most amazing day, everything was perfect from the start, Hannah our wedding planner was so helpful with nothing being too much trouble. The food and the wine were exceptional with all our guests saying how gorgeous it was. We had glorious weather which meant that we were able to make the most of the beautiful grounds for the champagne drinks reception and photos. Our evening reception was in the Shelley and Wakehurst Suite which was just right to celebrate with our evening guests. To round the day off we stayed in the Henley Suite which is just as luxurious as you would expect. Thank you again to Hannah and all the staff on the day who helped to make our day perfect.

We had our wedding breakfast and evening reception at Alexander House on the 26th May. Helen was our wedding planner, she was excellent, very attentive and accommodating! The day itself went like a dream, the sun was shining, which meant we had our welcome drinks out on the lawn, such a beautiful setting! The staff on the day were excellent! You wont be dissapointed if you book this venue!! Lots of great comments from our guests about the venue and staff! We cant wait to go back again :0)

We had the best day of our lives when we got married at Alexander House on Saturday 10 March 2012. We were lucky enough to have a gorgeous warm sunny day so we were able to enjoy our drinks reception on the terrace which was absolutely gorgeous. We really enjoyed planning our big day ? we had endless help from our wedding co-ordinator, Hannah Evaroa. Hannah worked tirelessly to ensure we had the day we wanted. She was incredibly helpful and kind making great suggestions and generally putting us at ease. We were able to relax and trust Hannah with every detail and for this we are truly grateful. We had a fabulous day, the library looked perfectly elegant for our ceremony, we had our wedding breakfast and evening reception in the Shelly & Wakehurst suite ? the food was fantastic (the chef was very kind and let us be quite involved in our menu selections). The service at Alexander House is second to none and the venue is spectacular. We wish we could do it all again!

Huge thanks to all staff at the Alexander House Hotel who were involved in Stephanie and Dan's wedding,and an extra big thank you to Jen for all her hard work.The venue was outstanding and the service provided by the hotel staff was nothing short of excellent.We all gasped in amazement at how lovely the reception room looked.All our guests have told us that they had an absolutely brilliant time.

Up until the day our wedding coordinator, Jen, was amazing. She was so organised and really gave us a personal service. Nothing I ask was too much bother and Jen always answered any queries or questions I had really quickly. They are flexible (unlike a lot of venues we looked into) and will work with you to organise your perfect day. Both my husband and I felt like our wedding was important to Jen and she made sure that every detail was perfect and organised to perfection. It even got to the point where she knew me so well she could pre-empt my answers! On the day all the venue staff were amazingly supportive, with little touches throughout the day that made us feel both looked after and extra special. The food was gorgeous and all our guests are still commenting on how perfect both the venue and food was. A couple of guests also commented that they could see the staff knew us well and really went over and beyond. The service was out of this world and everyone there couldn?t do enough for us. If you?re looking for a venue that is stunning, makes you feel special and gives a personal service then this is the one. I really can?t recommend this venue enough and will really miss having an excuse to just pop up!

found the beautiful Alexander House online when searching for our perfect wedding venue. From the minute we arrived we knew it would be everything we wanted, and everyone at Alexander House made it exactly what we had hoped for. Nothing was too much trouble for the fantastic team of staff - especially Stephanie, our wedding organiser, who made everything easy for us; tailoring all the little details to exactly how we wanted them. The rooms at Alexander House really are beautiful and luxurious. The beds are incredibly comfortable and the bathrooms are fabulous! Our bath was enormous! We visited the Utopia Spa twice during the weekend and it was wonderful. I had two treatments on the day we arrived, and a massage on the third day after our wedding. Each treatment was very relaxing and the therapists were very lovely girls. The facilities are great and really are as elegant as they look on their website! The food at Alexander House is excellent. Our wedding breakfast was beautiful - we had so many guests telling us it was the best food they had ever eaten at a wedding. Each dish looked delicious and did not disappoint. The night before the wedding, Stephanie arranged a lovely private dinner for our family and friends staying at the hotel. Again, the food was of the highest restaurant quality - really very lovely. After, we sat around the open log fire with our drinks before heading up to our lovely cosy beds. From start to finish, our wedding went without the slightest glitch! The whole team at Alexander House did a fantastic job. Thank you to you all for our perfect wedding!

A huge thank you to Jennifer Irwin, our wedding co-ordinator, and all the other staff that made our wedding day just perfect. So many of our guests congratulated us on the perfect venue and told us it was the best wedding they had ever been to. So once again lovely venue and staff, great food and fantastic service.